Aries and Aries Compatibility: In Friendship and In Love


When it comes to dating or befriending someone who shares your sign, you might have one of three opinions. 1) Hell, yes. I love myself more than most others do, so why wouldn’t I want to spend time with someone who shares similar traits? 2) I can be pretty difficult, and there are certain traits about me that exhaust even myself… I’m not sure I want to stare in a mirror with my friends and partner. 3) No sign is perfect. Let’s see how this goes. 

If you’re an Aries, that last one is probably your perspective. Your impulsive nature means you don’t think long-term about much of anything, including who you spend your time with. Of course, once you decide that the person in your life is someone worth keeping around, you will double down on your loyalty.

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Let’s cut to the chase, Aries; you think you’re pretty cool. It’s probably the only perspective you have in life that is consistent and stable. It’s why when you think of a thought, you don’t hesitate to express it. You trust yourself, so when something comes to mind, there is no filter before it spills out of your mouth. This can strike other signs as impulsive, abrasive, and insensitive, but not when you’re hanging out with another Aries. This is perhaps the only person who will understand why you say the things you do and who won’t become sensitive to your bluntness. If anything, they won’t just agree with your thoughts; they’ll add to them. As a result, there’s instant comfort between the two of you, and even if you just met, you’ll instantly feel like you met your match.

Aries and Aries in Friendship

Being friends with your shared sun sign doesn’t always work, but in this case, you two don’t just click; you thrive. Aries, you’re ruled by the planet Mars, the god of War. You don’t go searching for trouble, but you don’t back away from disrespect, either. You’ll always express yourself and your opinions, especially if someone gets on your nerves, but you never harbor resentment, and your ability to forgive and forget, means that spending time with another Aries will be less about fixing what may have gone wrong and more about discovering what kind of fun you can get into next.

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Friend Date: Mani/Pedi or Streaking on the Beach at Midnight?

Together, the two of you are always searching for the next thrill. Not all Zodiac signs are intrigued by this. Your impulsivity means you change plans last minute, you don’t hesitate to go after what you want, and you’re constantly searching for the next fun thing to get involved with. Finding a friend who can keep up with your ever-changing perspective is a bit of a challenge. When you meet another Aries, you’ll immediately know something is different with them. Not only are you both active and competitive, but you enjoy trying new things and realize that with another Aries, you two can be independent while also taking the lead in whatever activities you two choose to do.

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Friend-Fection: Keep It on the Dl or Text ‘Love Ya Biatch?’

With expressing yourself in friendship and love, you Aries, always say exactly what you mean. It doesn’t matter that what you mean could change in five seconds because you’ll be sure to express your thoughts when that happens, too. Befriending another Aries will be easy for you. One of the things that bothers you with other signs is their tendency to hold on to any issues that may arise and talk about things repetitively. You won’t find this an issue with your Aries buddy. If anything, you’re both hot-headed and will blurt out your feelings as soon as something occurs to you. To other signs who are friends with the two of you, they may be taken aback by your harsh bluntness and even more surprised and confused when five minutes later, the two of you are laughing as if nothing happened. But that’s just you two being you, being blunt, forgiving, and forgetting, ready for your next dose of fun.

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Dating Advice: Send His Name or Send His Social?

Aries, you prefer to keep your dating life on the down low. Most of your friends get excited about first dates and want to know everything possible, but not you. You’re too impulsive to fall head first right out the gate, and it can annoy you when other signs not only do that but assume you have feelings for a practical stranger whose last name you don’t even know.

As a result, you often keep any information about potential partners from your friends until you’re certain that what you’re feeling is genuine. However, Aries, your Aries friend is probably one of the few you’ll be confiding in when you meet someone new. Not because you’re super excited or you need to know everything there is to know about this potential date… Most likely, it’s because your Aries friend will be the only one who understands that just because you talk about someone doesn’t mean you instantly have feelings for them. If anything, you and your Aries friend will laugh at your other friends who do just that.

Aries and Aries in Love

While it’s rare for two of the same signs to have the type of solid friendship the two of you have, it’s even rarer to find this spark in love–but you two have it. In fact, meeting another Aries you’re physically attracted to will probably send you into a bit of a tail spin. You’ll find yourself acting like the people you usually make fun of… falling head over heels for someone you don’t even know, but suddenly feel you’ve met the missing puzzle piece that instantly clicks into place.

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The First Date: Roses or KFC?

The two of you arrive at dinner, both dreading a potentially boring meal of empty conversation. Within five minutes, you’ll recognize that this is different. Chances are, you two may not even order your meal before you decide to go do something more interesting. Your mutual spontaneous nature ensures that your first date is unlike any other experience you’ve shared with a stranger before. And if this isn’t a stranger–and you two started as friends (also a likely possibility)–then you probably won’t finish dinner because you won’t be able to keep your hands off each other.

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Love Language Do’s and Don’ts: A Dealbreaker?

This is what locks you two together for the long term. Unlike other signs who prefer one love language over another, you Aries express your affection differently based on your mood. And not only that, the affection you need from your partner may change depending on what you’ve got going on that day. Every moment is unique for you, Aries, and that’s how you prefer it. You don’t want repetitiveness or predictability. You crave variety and surprise, and although you and your Aries partner are more likely to show your affection through your actions instead of your words, you won’t be bothered if your partner expresses things differently than you. In fact, that’s how you prefer it.

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Sexy Time: Slow and Steady or Chompin’ at the Bit?

Yeah, once you get to this point… you two are done for. Not only have you met your match mentally and emotionally, but physically you’ve now discovered that sex can be even better than you ever expected. As an Aries, you’re driven by passion, and this will show in the heightened level of your intimacy. You two may struggle to express your affection with words, but you’ll show it in every other way possible.

The Verdict?

In friendship or love, it doesn’t really get better than this.

Compatibility Scale:

  • 1- Get AWAY from me
  • 2- Who are you again?
  • 3- I tolerate you
  • 4- You’re pretty cool
  • 5- Let’s gooooo!

Friendship Compatibility

5.0 Gold Stars

Love Compatibility

5.0 Gold Stars

What if I Love This Person?

Then let’s hope you don’t have traditional parents who crave a regular wedding. It’s much more likely you two will elope to Vegas. Or maybe Costa Rica. Hell, you probably won’t know when you’ll get married and where until the day of. And you’ll love every second of not knowing what will happen next. Life with you two, Aries, is one constant surprise, and it’s exactly what you both need to be happy.